The Pull & The Pendulum: How We Belong Without Losing Ourselves
After years of documenting how ordinary cultures erode personal agency — wellness spaces, workplaces, intimate relationships — I kept hitting the same wall. Understanding how "the drift" happens isn't enough. There has to be an alternative. And it can't just be try harder or find better people. In this solo drop, I use a recent social media pile-on as a jumping-off point to unpack why the conversation keeps collapsing into two bad options...